WHAT WOULD I SAY TO MY YOUNGER SELF part 2

                               Well yesterday I gave my younger self some advise .I now realize I could not cover every thing in just a few short paragraphs . I know I need to expand on what was said on some points , and left some out .
                                On the last point I made there is so much to be said . Picking your friends affect so much of what you will do in your life .Yes they influence so much of what you will do in life . Birds of the same feather flock together .  When you are seen with a group you become known by what the group does . Every group has its own set of ethics which they go go by . It all carries over to ever thing else you do . Your relationships , your work , your family , and community is affected by it .  It represents how people see you as a person . It determines how much trust is given you . Shoot it may even make the decision of  where will work or life for you .
                              So make darn sure that is a direction in life will want to live with . Yes latter in life you can make adjustments in the kind of friends you have and your direction in life . But it may take a while to effect that change . Its easier to to get started off on the right foot though . It is also from this group where you will develop your work ethic from .. You work ethic also determines how far you will get in life . One simple rule ; if the boss ain't making money your not either . Give more than what you get . Also not only do your family and friends have to be able to trust you . If they can't trust you ; how do you expect your employer to trust you . A person always plays and lives the same way they approach their job . That is just my observation .
                        One more thing ; do not put so much of your personal life out there , less is better . Learn to to keep all parts of your life separate . Leave work at work and home at home never let the two met . Don't every one all of what your thinking . Do not let them in your head . You have got to keep some thing of your self for your self .You don't need unwanted advise from some one who may have worse problems than you . They are the ones who quick with the advise . If their advise is so good ; how come they are not listening to them self's .Like I said in my post yesterday just slow down a little and think about it a little . A answer will present itself when your ready . You see how picking your fiends can affect so much more than your social  life .It affects every thing you do .