Things I wish I had

                     Well my topic today could go many different directions depending on where your mind is  at , at the time it was asked and your state mind at time .
                  It could go in the direction of missed chances on relationships you wish you had . It might been that young lady whom by chance smiled at you and said good mourning to you ,but you went on about your business .
                It may have been that training that may have passed up for a short term goal which did not work out the way you wished .
             An action that you were involved with that may have changed your relationship with your spouse for ever . No apology , flowers or night on the town ; could ever get them to look at you the same .
                    We as humans must remember the path's we choose will affect many parts of our life . It may not affect all of them ,maybe just some of them and not all at the same time . We just have to make sure that our risk that we took will not put us in the position ; where later on you will ask wish I had that chance again.
                   We all honestly know ; we should never ask our selves that question . Because it is useless . We are where are and have the things we have ,because of the choices we made in our life .
                  It does not do any any good to look at others and say I could of had that or done that . The fact fact remains you are who you are ,where you are because you made the choice . All we can do is live with it and go from there and start making changes that will get you the things you wish you had .
               You could waste you whole life looking at things you wish you had . Reality check ; you will never have them unless [ to take a known phrase and use it ] Just do it .
             So in conclusion I suggest that we put down that bag of chips and drink ,turn of the TV ; get off the couch . Go out that front door and do something about it . Yes you may fail but what that does is show that road my not work for you . Out of failure comes success.But by all means have some fun along the way. It is that that may show you what works for you . I gonna tell you a secret , if I would only follow my own advise.good luck to you all ; I know I need all the luck I can get .